a realization

My own happiness should not be coming from others. I create my own story, I play my role , and the way I want to end it up? It’s up to me . That you may in control of yourself but not others, one should learn to accept and respect freedom. Learn to let go of the things and people  that needs to be freed, and learn to keep  those who wished  to stay and worth keeping for. That not all people will truly appreciate everything that you do,  no matter how hard you keep on trying to do things that would pleased them. For its not all about pleasing them, it’s should be all about giving what you have,  the best that you’ve  got and not to expect something in return. I realized that you should learn to accept the fact that one day some people will leave you unwanted and unloved. I realized that love is such a wonderful thing, it should not be the reason for all the hurt and pain, for those pain and hurt comes from failed expectations not because you had loved. This world is full of too much violence and hatred but then learn to forgive,  for in forgiveness you’ll attain   a peaceful heart, mind , and soul. For people are dying not of scarcity of food but because of unforgiveness  , not being cared for and unloved.

These were all realizations, I’ve been thinking for almost 2 and a half weeks.